MANNERS QUOTES II

quotations about manners

Good manners without sincerity are like a beautiful dead lady.

YUKTESWAR GIRI

Autobiography of a Yogi


Manners are incidental to moral choices because they are benign expressions of character, and irrelevant to the particulars of a given choice. The fact that manners so readily dissociate from character suggests that, as far as virtue is concerned, they are not ingredients but accoutrements.

JASON W. BROWN

Process and the Authentic Life


Manners must adorn knowledge, and smooth its way through the world. Like a great rough diamond, it may do very well in a closet by way of curiosity, and also for its intrinsic value; but it will never be worn, nor shine, if it is not polished.

PHILIP STANHOPE

letter to his son, July 1, 1748

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Manners are not the be-all and end-all of human relationships, but they are certainly a good lubricant, a social WD40.

PAUL KROPP

I'll Be the Parent, You Be the Child


We ought to esteem him alone an agreeable and good-natured man, who, in his daily intercourse with others, behaves in such a manner as friends usually behave to each other. For as a person of that rustic character appears, wherever he comes, like a mere stranger: so, on the contrary, a polite man, wherever he goes, seems as easy as if he were amongst his intimate friends and acquaintance.

GIOVANNI DELLA CASA

Galateo: Or, A Treatise on Politeness and Delicacy of Manners


The point that should be stressed here is that manners are not a coerced and external set of rules: manners are internalized rules, and the process of internalization creates a new kind of subject.

TED OWNBY

Manners and Southern History


Good manners set off a lowly garb.

PLAUTUS

attributed, Day's Collacon


It was growing late, and though one might stand on the brink of a deep chasm of disaster, one was still obliged to dress for dinner.

GEORGETTE HEYER

April Lady


Eye nature's walks, shoot folly as it flies,
And catch the manners, living as they rise;
Laugh where we must, be candid where we can,
But vindicate the ways of God to man.

ALEXANDER POPE

An Essay on Man

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In our manners, tranquility is the supreme power.

MME. DE MAINTENON

attributed, Day's Collacon


Manners aim to facilitate life, to get rid of impediments, and bring the man pure to energize. They aid our dealing and conversation, as a railway aids traveling, by getting rid of all avoidable obstructions of the road, and leaving nothing to be conquered but pure space.

RALPH WALDO EMERSON

"Manners", Essays

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Manners differ with climates; the northern nations are distinguished for etiquette, the eastern for ceremony, and the southern for courtesy.

LORD ACTON

attributed, Day's Collacon

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A robot could be programmed to show good manners. A pleasant demeanor can disguise evil, courtesy can be a window of opportunism, gracious conduct may conceal disdain.

JASON W. BROWN

Process and the Authentic Life


If we strive to become, then, what we strive to appear, manners may often be rendered useful guides to the performance of our duties.

SYDNEY SMITH

Sermons

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For if you suffer your people to be ill-educated, and their manners to be corrupted from their infancy, and then punish them for those crimes to which their first education disposed them, what else is to be concluded from this, but that you first make thieves and then punish them.

THOMAS MORE

Utopia


Good manners are buffers between egos; they are the ways of civilized people.

JOHN B. STEWART

Opinion and Reform in Hume's Political Philosophy


Emperors and rich men are by no means the most skillful masters of good manners. No rent roll nor army-list can dignify skulking and dissimulations: and the first point of courtesy must always be truth, as really all forms of good-breeding point that way.

RALPH WALDO EMERSON

"Manners", Essays

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Manners are of more importance than laws. The law can touch us here and there, now and then. Manners are what vex or soothe, corrupt or purify, exalt or debase, barbarize or refine us, by a constant, steady, uniform, insensible operation like that of the air we breathe in.

EDMUND BURKE

Letters On a Regicide Peace

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There ought to be system of manners in every nation which a well-formed mind would be disposed to relish. To make us love our country, our country ought to be lovely.

EDMUND BURKE

Reflections on the Revolution in France

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Truth, justice, and reason lose all their force and all their lustre when they are not accompanied with agreeable manners.

J. THOMSON

attributed, Day's Collacon